[NvPinder]

Originally Posted by xGKingLight

I like how Tgun and Nirvana stated the awesome things Benji is doing to go along with the usual criticism/advice - This is a much nicer/efficient way to make the stubborn guy that is Benji try to do things differently.

Growing up as a child I always worked better with encouragement as opposed to constant criticism with not a word of praise of anything I'm doing right. Sometimes I wonder if you guys are really trying to help Benji out or just having a face. Because if it is the former than you might want to rethink your approach.

This isn't kindergarten, and just because Benji acts like a child doesn't mean we will treat him as one. Seriously this is utterly ridiculous, I feel like you're trying to be a 'my little pony' character in this thread Ray.

This is the CRITICISM thread, people are going to criticize, we get it, Benji's getting drilled to shit in this thread, and it's been a looooooooooooooooooong time coming, and probably feels pretty shitty for him, but people have been telling him for a while that he needs to stop acting in certain ways and the community is finally fed up with him ignoring us as a whole.

I don't see why every connection to Benji and arrogance has to be unearthed, neither are you making a new argument. It feels exactly the same as when people tried to find every little thing/anything to attack Kelly with.

You could almost think of this thread as an intervention, everyone wants a go at calling out exactly what pisses them off about Benji's behavior. and TBH, since he's always shrugging it off as "just the same few people saying the same old thing", I think the more people that post and tell him how they feel, even if it is just rehashing what someone else said, the better.

Quick Comments

	nGenLight:	Just gotta agree to disagree on how to make someone better =/
	breadfan:	criticism is not just about highlighting the negatives though
	Fourby:
	TAEdarus:
	Rockstar:	interventions are a last resort usually reserved for extreme situations. They are typically composed of FRIENDS and FAMILY and even then they rarely work. This whole thread is a mass circlejerk and I personally can't believe it hasn't been locked.
	JaFF:	the cold hard truth