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Originally Posted by sHockeR

Ask your sister to help you with convincing your mom.

I can't force a responsible thing to my sister since she just finished her operation for her brain , and doctor told us not to let her handle too much stress.

Originally Posted by Nobunaga

The problem with this situation, is that your mom is an enabler to your dad's gambling problem. Until everyone else in your family says no, your dad is just going to keep on getting his way and losing all the money.

Like the previous posters says, you got to convince your mom to stop this or they cycle will keep on repeating itself. Giving your dad the laptop is only a short term solution to the problem, because eventually it'll happen again one month later.

It's hard for a 19 year old to step up and confront their fathers, because they don't have a solid base, a home away from home, or solid financials yet (especially in Asia). You'll really need everyone on your side to do this.

I have talked to my mother this morning about this , she told me that she just worried that things got worse before my sister got married , she said she has set aside amount of money until i graduate.