Okay so after a massive blowout tonight, there is a good chance I'm now out on the streets of North Brisbane
What Happened:
The course of today was much like every other day, I woke up cleaned, since its monday I do a full clean of the house, bathroom,kitchen and and then vacuum. Also did my course reading in the morning, i did all this cleaning etc while everyone else went down to a swimming hole, I did the cleaning without complaints.
Again it's monday, so it was my turn to cook, it was a BBQ after slaving over a BBQ for 80 minutes for feeding 14 people, i recieved no thank you as usual. The rule in the house is "you cook, you clean" i finished 3rd out of the 14ppl, cleaned what i could and went to my room in wait of when they would finish, over heard the youngest daughter (my brothers fiance) mention the house rule, i walked out and just let them know I would clean once everyone had finished so i could do it properly.
This then broke out into her yelling at me because i was being disrespectful with the words of you need to be out within a week.
So yeah I got a week and then im fukn scared :S :S
Just pack up and go back to Adelaide? Do you have family or friends in either Brisbane or Adelaide you can crash with?
Times like this are shit, I've been there before and it hurts. You have to deal with it regardless, some people are just bad people. Don't let it get you down, find somewhere to crash with mates for a week while you look for a flat to move into or stay with family.
dont have family in adelaide, my family is here but i havent gotten along with them for a very long time, i also have no money to do the move back to adelaide.
Christ, I'm just going to echo some of the stuff said in here and say that your brother and his fiancee + family are complete assholes. It's completely unacceptable. It's also pretty sad that your dickhead brother is siding with them rather than the person that did a pretty selfless thing in coming up in the first place.
**** them. Number one priority should be you and your health and wellbeing.
I suggest going to some job agencies to find some temp work while you sort things out. Anyway, best of luck to you.
EDIT: would also like to add that the "you cook, you clean" etiquette doesn't really apply when the person cooking is cooking for you and your friends/family, Everyone needs to pitch in and help out.
Fede i dont know what i could do to help but if you want i can ask my dad if its cool if you can stay in the spare room until you get a job or something.
its not even the slave thing to me its like i have done everything to make it as easy for them as possible so me being here isnt a burden and im getting kicked out becausei went to my room to wait for them to finish so i could clean up properly, like its just really pathetic
Hey man sorry to hear about all of this . if it comes to it and you come back to Adelaide I do have a spare room ATM that no one uses and its only me and my fiancé here. (Were moving out soon) but your welcome to couch surf/stay if you are stuck.
You use this tiny set back as FUEL, FUEL FOR SUCCESS, you go out there and be there best you can and when you're the CEO of Microsoft or CEO of any company you shit on your bro's fiance, ./motivationover real life sucks man
my philosophy is "life is what you make of it" if i let every obstacle stop me from what i want to achieve that would make me a pretty weak person, every down has an up you just got to find the right road to get there
Sorry to hear about your situation, but yeah try to couch surf at someone's house or something if it's possible until you get a job and move out..or get a job, save up money and then head back to Adelaide or something.
That's a really fucked up situation you're in buddy. :/
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