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Plottel · Mon, 7th-Oct-2013, 8:03 PM

These people are ******* nutters who are just exploiting you for a ******* maid. Harry Potter style situation right here. Gotta get yourself out of this ******* bullshit and in to Hogwarts.

Chiddiru · Mon, 7th-Oct-2013, 8:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Cyanide

1) Your brother should be doing something about this because he's the one who asked you to move up with him.

- Let him know what's going on if he's oblivious to everything that's going on
- Don't be afraid to let him know how his fiance is treating you

2) sounds like you're better off living somewhere else anyway, they are taking advantage of you.

3) reason with them and be perfectly calm when you do that

- respect is earned, not given.

I have spoken to him on multiple occasions, he just said bite your lip just say yes and agree with what anyone tells you to do, they are doing me a favour and make them feel like you belong there and make your being here easier on them not vice versa, help how ever you can.

there is no reasoning the mother come in about 30 mins ago, explained that her daughters wishes need to be met because she doesnt want her daughter to leave. the daughter said i need to be out within a week or she'll leave, obviously parents wouldnt want that.

Narse · Mon, 7th-Oct-2013, 8:05 PM

So 11 people in the same house... is there even proper living conditions in the house?? What is the size of this house?? Seriously this is still sounding like some kind of child services/investigation of some sort. I however need more context, like how old are you and your brother?

Plottel · Mon, 7th-Oct-2013, 8:06 PM

WTF!?!?!?!?!? The mother is kicking you out because the daughter is throwing a hissy fit? What the actual **** kind of retarded spastic family is this. Are they stuck in the 19th century? Slavery's over Yo.

SLCN.Kez · Mon, 7th-Oct-2013, 8:06 PM

Bitches be crazy

Narse · Mon, 7th-Oct-2013, 8:07 PM

i was going to reference the 18th century myself....

Go to the authorities ASAP... don't dwell and ho hum the entire week away..... this shit is serious and you need to know this is not a way of life for anyone..... you need that courage to take the first step.

Chiddiru · Mon, 7th-Oct-2013, 8:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Narse

So 11 people in the same house... is there even proper living conditions in the house?? What is the size of this house?? Seriously this is still sounding like some kind of child services/investigation of some sort. I however need more context, like how old are you and your brother?

its got 6 bedrooms in the house, its got an offsite granny flat.

the 4 foster kids are 8,7, 8months and 6 months.

my brother is 24 im 22

mind you where i was living before was 3 people in a unit paid all the bills and things were fine, me coming here was so my brother would stop begging me to come up here to be closer to my mum, who i dont even get along with, i came here for them not myself

Plottel · Mon, 7th-Oct-2013, 8:09 PM

You're 22 and you're being treated like a child. This is disgraceful. Go back to Adelaide. If you aren't there for yourself then get out ASAP

Chiddiru · Mon, 7th-Oct-2013, 8:10 PM

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Originally Posted by pX.PLoTTeL

You're 22 and you're being treated like a child. This is disgraceful. Go back to Adelaide. If you aren't there for yourself then get out ASAP

no job, the money i used to get here was the last of my savings

Plottel · Mon, 7th-Oct-2013, 8:11 PM

Then tell your shit heel of a brother you've had enough and that he should give you some money so you can go back to a place where you aren't treated like dirt for no reason.

**syfRize** · Mon, 7th-Oct-2013, 8:12 PM

I'm not very old bro, but I know that with living conditions you need to think of yourself > others.

Sure others all want you to be there, but at the end of the day do you want to be there or back down here in Adelaide?
Down here you get to be where things were better, just think about it.

I know it's impossible to come back due to money reasons or something, but just think about where you would rather be!

Chiddiru · Mon, 7th-Oct-2013, 8:14 PM

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Originally Posted by pX.PLoTTeL

Then tell your shit heel of a brother you've had enough and that he should give you some money so you can go back to a place where you aren't treated like dirt for no reason.

before i came up i told him id need him to give me some money so i wont run on empty for my savings account if he wanted me to, he gave me nothing, but continued to beg and beg until he got his fiance and her parents to ask m, they had said they would help get me sorted out here, eg pay for a blue card, license and rego switch over etc, so i wasnt hugely out of pocket for the move, my brother wants his money for himself apparently i need to learn to stop bludging off others, even though in adelaide i was full-time studying.

Chiddiru · Mon, 7th-Oct-2013, 8:15 PM

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Originally Posted by AxS.KnighT

I'm not very old bro, but I know that with living conditions you need to think of yourself > others.

Sure others all want you to be there, but at the end of the day do you want to be there or back down here in Adelaide?
Down here you get to be where things were better, just think about it.

I know it's impossible to come back due to money reasons or something, but just think about where you would rather be!

if i could be back in adelaide i would, but where i was living the other guys moved into a smaller place. so even in adelaide id have no where to go realistically, well for a time anyways

Malice · Mon, 7th-Oct-2013, 8:27 PM

My mate hitchhiked from north-east victoria to Brisbane, its a fair bit further, but you could probably try that if you felt adventurous enough, if you can get some money together.

Chiddiru · Mon, 7th-Oct-2013, 8:33 PM

malice i have my car and belongings that i brought with me, eg pc.

i guess was just posting on here for advice from people, seems pretty high opinion that i need to find another place to live